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Clearing a Charge in Myself, With two ‘no’s, the Facilitators use the following model: Data Judgment Feeling(s) Ownership of Projection Want for himself Want for my relationship with this man important principles The most important piece in a clearing is to discover and identify the shadow that is at play creating the charge in me, then to own and withdraw the projection. This helps a man see what he is projecting on others, whether it is his wife, a parent, or the man he is clearing with., With two ‘no’s, the Facilitators use the following model: Data Judgment Feeling(s) Ownership of Projection Want for himself Want for my relationship with this man then The Facilitator asks the Mirror to repeat back exactly what he hears after the Data, Judgment and Feeling steps. Mirror need not say anything else during the clearing process. It is important that the man who is clearing feels heard., “Then you understand this isn’t about this man here. He is acting as a Mirror for something that you need to see inside of you. Do you get that?” then With two ‘no’s, the Facilitators use the following model: Data Judgment Feeling(s) Ownership of Projection Want for himself Want for my relationship with this man, The Facilitator next asks the man wanting to clear: 1. “Has this man broken any agreement or commitments with you?” Yes/No 2. “Has he violated any of your boundaries?” Yes/No if either yes go to "Supporting a Brother in Being Accountable", The Facilitator asks the Mirror to repeat back exactly what he hears after the Data, Judgment and Feeling steps. Mirror need not say anything else during the clearing process. It is important that the man who is clearing feels heard. then Once these steps are completed, the facilitator asks the man if he is clear. If he says yes, the clearing is over and both men are to sit down. After sitting down, if the Mirror needs to do a clearing, he has that option and chooses a facilitator, etc., Man with charge 1. Names whom he wants to clear with (the "Mirror") 2. Chooses a Facilitator then Facilitator 1. Asks Mirror if he is willing to participate 2. If so, asks men to stand in center facing each other 3. Asks each man if he needs support and to create what he desires, The Facilitator next asks the man wanting to clear: 1. “Has this man broken any agreement or commitments with you?” Yes/No 2. “Has he violated any of your boundaries?” Yes/No if both no “Then you understand this isn’t about this man here. He is acting as a Mirror for something that you need to see inside of you. Do you get that?”, Facilitator 1. Asks Mirror if he is willing to participate 2. If so, asks men to stand in center facing each other 3. Asks each man if he needs support and to create what he desires then The Facilitator next asks the man wanting to clear: 1. “Has this man broken any agreement or commitments with you?” Yes/No 2. “Has he violated any of your boundaries?” Yes/No, With two ‘no’s, the Facilitators use the following model: Data Judgment Feeling(s) Ownership of Projection Want for himself Want for my relationship with this man important principles The Facilitator is also responsible for keeping the clearing clean and concise. A clearing is not an opportunity for a man to spew on another. If the facilitator feels that a man is spewing on a Mirror and not holding the intention of becoming clear about what he is projecting on the Mirror, the facilitator is to pause the clearing. He points this out to the man, and asks him whether he is willing to proceed with the intention of owning his projection(s)., Man with charge 1. Names whom he wants to clear with (the "Mirror") 2. Chooses a Facilitator important principle From this point forward, only the Facilitator speaks to the men involved in the Clearing. If a man in the circle wants to offer a comment or suggestion, he is to whisper it in the ear of the Facilitator.