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This Concept Map has information related to: Warrior Shame Lifters, Warrior Shamelifters (esp 1, 4, 8) she has experienced cruel abandonments and/or invasive manipulations, Warrior Shamelifters (esp 1, 4, 8) she has repressed vulnerable feelings like sadness, fear or even happiness, Set up an argument w/Buster you can afford to lose by asking what she wants in making her objection, and then countering that she really doesn't want it Back down and let her win whichever she says she "really wants" and begin What's at Risk based on that want, Warrior Shamelifters (esp 1, 4, 8) objective Lift the shame off P by picking a fight she can win and we can afford to lose, facilitated in a way that boosts her ego, 1st Level Intervention facilitation 1. In essence, say "I want to talk with you later"., 1. In essence, say "I want to talk with you later". 2. If P insists on "now", shift the subject to oft the conflict to "whether to speak now or later", 2. If P insists on "now", shift the subject to oft the conflict to "whether to speak now or later" 3. Later, meet off line & use Quarter Talk or Digging Under Differences, Warrior Shamelifters (esp 1, 4, 8) she lacks blessing, connection, and a merciful understanding for herself, Instead of asking "How's it working now... (not...keep)" assume for her that she would say, "Sometimes it works and sometimes not" Work this answer into a statement that will reduce the possibility of seeing her objection as an option, is trying to find her true self by engaging which manifests as strong, perhaps angry objections against your authority, rules, or other aspects of the container